- You cannot control. - Or dictate. The opinions and attitudes of other people. All you can do is live your best life. - Be a decent person. - Yeah. And live and speak with integrity. And then you know that you can go to sleep, go to sleep at night, knowing that you did your best today. Yeah. That's it. You can't please everybody. There will always be people who don't like your hair, don't like your face, don't like the sound of your voice, don't believe the things that you say.